I am confused and perplexed by your post neverfly. I know *he* wasn't flirting in a bar, but the OP asked what the difference was. I fear, however, I'm just missing the sarcasm/irony/point in your post, so I'll just slowly back out of the room.

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I'm like one of those idiot savants...well, except for the savant part.
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