If teaching mental arithmetic is your goal, you are probably right that close contact is important. (In my opinion some close contact is always important. It's too easy to get lost, be discouraged, and give up, when you're learning math.)

There are probably good (old) books on the topic of mental calculation and estimation, though I wouldn't be able to recommend one.

Games that involve estimating probabilities, like poker, might be interesting.

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