In order: 1) Very likely one or more mod(s) not wanting us to discuss approvingly of what is legally assault, 2) Probably not, 3) Yeah, "whom". "Whom" is the object form. "Who" is the subject form. "Who did it?" "To whom are you referring?"

/ Not Gillian, but I've got English grammar rules nearly memorized except for gerunds. Never had a teacher who understood them enough to explain them properly. I can work with 'em, after a fashion, but I don't really get them.

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Listen close to everybody's heart________And you believe there's good in everybody's heart
And hear that breaking sound_____________Keep it safe and sound
Hopes and dreams are shattering apart____With hope you can do your part
And crashing to the ground_______________To turn a life around