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Originally Posted by closetgeek
A friend was explaining that we have a tendency to cheat because our brains eventually develop an immunity to the chemical reactions that cause the initial fireworks and we crave that feeling like a drug addiction. When those feelings are invoked by another, some resist but some can't seem to. In a lot of cases, a person's judgement becomes flawed, as if they were drunk, and make heat of the moment decisions that they would normally not think themselve capable. It makes sense that the fireworks would fade, so we can come back down and resume getting things done but what if we are not supposed to work to stay together for life?
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Animals don't have emotions to feel cheated , humans do.
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Originally Posted by closetgeek
By supposed to, I mean; what if our properties don't give us the necessity to stay together forever, rather, what if we are built for variety? Some people seem to fall in love and want to be together but just out of personal experience, after the first few years people seem to have to lower their expectations just to get through daily life with their partner.
What's your opinion?
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I don't believe humans are born to fall in love with multiple people at the same time. Others do so , culturally like Muslims , but heck speaking for myself, I can't stand the person I love is loving another at the same time. People who stays together for long time just like our grand parents that as the years gone by its not lowering their expectations but, Companionship enters.