it seems to me that you are tring to have it both ways. just now you stated that fields always 'push' outward (regardless if the force is attractive or repellent), but at the beginning you clamed that it is the field that pushes inward and thus causes inertial force.

which is it? if the gravity /field/particle/wave/other/ gets emited outward, how is the information passed inward to the mass?

now, get me straight, i'm not tring to discount the therory about how all fields 'push', i just want to know how you propose that the information is passed inward, the two do not seems compatible

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