Here's a few links to try, there's lots more on the web. Good stuff:
http://www.prairieastronomyclub.org/buyers.htm
http://observers.org/TAC.cgi/Links/#EQUIPMENT
Find a local astronomy club. Go to a meeting, ask questions. Amateur astronomers tend to be a friendly lot.
If you are in the US, try
http://www.astroleague.org/al/general/society.html
or the Sky and Telescope web site.
Also, see if you can find a copy of the book
Starware by Herrington. The 3rd edition has recently come out. It is a very good resource for the sort of questions you have asked.
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