I agree, it's impossible to "prove" Nancy wrong. She'll continue to tell people they can see it, and she'll continue to say she's seen it herself. However, if you really want to look, I post the general areas of observation on my site at
http://m1.aol.com/deepspacegirl/visible.html (mostly for the Zeta followers so they don't look at the sun with their binoculars - Nancy has given no warnings to people about daytime viewing) She's also extended the timeline now to June 1st for the "pole shift". I expect another "extension" around the beginning or middle of May.
The coordinates Nancy has posted are
For April 1, 2003
RA 04 09 40.9 Dec +11 12 52.4
For April 7, 2003
RA 04 09 40.9 Dec +11 09 47.5
For April 16, 2003
RA 04 07 52.9 Dec +10 14 12.3
She's also posted coordinates for quite a few more days in April and May, but most of those days the coordinates will be in astronomical twilight - pretty useless for imaging. You'll have to interpolate the coordinates on other days, no orbital elements have ever been provided, nor has the time of day for the posted coordinates.
Enjoy your new instruments, and have fun! I hope that scope is already on a pier, those 10" and 12" LX200's can be mighty heavy to lift up onto the wedge.
By the way, I usually tell her every week in her IRC sessions that I haven't seen it (weather permitting), and it usually gets me thrown of the channel <g>. But it's the truth. Some people just don't want to hear it.