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Personally I'd be inclined to turn the statement around a little and say, "The concept of adults being different from children is relatively new." |
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I think that if you could ask people from 1600 to state some ways
in which children and adults are alike, and ways in which they are different, you would get a list fairly similar to one that you would get from people nowadays-- possibly better. What goes on four legs in the morning, on two legs at noon, and on three legs in the evening? Anyone in 1600 would know that a baby cannot stand up on its own, and that it takes some time before it learns to crawl on all fours. Anyone in 1600 would know that a baby is born without teeth, that the teeth grow in, later fall out, and are replaced by new ones. Anyone in 1600 would know that a baby has to learn to talk. Anyone in 1600 would know that an adult can lift a child off the ground but a child cannot lift an adult off the ground. Anyone in 1600 would know that a 15-year-old can run faster than a 5-year-old or a 50-year-old. Anyone in 1600 would know that children almost always have better vision than adults. Etc. -- Jeff, in Minneapolis
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I'm more getting at that a couple of hundred years ago most people were subjects and at the bottom of political and religious heirachies. As subjects they were subject to other people's wills much as children are subject to the wills of their parents and teachers, except that today children have legal rights and protections that most people in the past lacked. A child like state of dependance was both encouraged and expected. People were expected to consider their Lords and gods as father (or mother) figures. The concept of childhood we have is very new. For example the idea that children shouldn't be aware of the existance of sex would seem very strange to most people in the past and indeed strange in many cultures in the world today. Our concept of teenager is even more modern. One recent change in our attitudes about children is it is now illegal to for children to attack other children. When I was a kid, provided you didn't put anyone in hospital, child on child violence was accepted and even encouraged. |
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Two rascals duking it out in some back alley over "kid protocol" was already old when people thought the world only went as far as the Tigris. [ I've got a scar on my knee(of all freakin places!)from some long-forgotten playground skirmish....actually, it was more like Bull Run, but that's another story. ] Those sordid pageants though...there are some serious issues there with both the welfare(psychological and physical) of the child and the responsibility and, in a way I guess, the maturity of the parent with dreams of Don King in their heads. Actually, I liken those pageant moms to Angela Lansbury's Mrs. Iselin in MANCHURIAN CANDIDATE...but then I'm known for my melodramatic imagination. ![]()
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Yes, they knew the physical differences; these people weren't stupid. However, children didn't acquire a "special" place until the last two hundred years or so; why do you think it took so long to impose child labour laws? And at that, the issue there was, at least in part, one of education--if you start working at the age of, oh, six, when do you have time to go to school? The issue to which I refer is psychological. Another one of those unbelievable statements that is nevertheless true is that the concept of the "teenager" didn't really exist until the 1920s, when the average person's educational span lengthened. I mean, ye Gods, have you read the Little House books? The only reason Laura wasn't teaching other kids when she was fifteen was that the law said a teacher had to be sixteen. Heck, check Wikipedia under "childhood." There's not much of an article there, but it's certainly a start, and it's the only online reference I'm going to be able to give you, because I read about this in books. Like, for example, my high school psychology text--and my college psychology text. Okay, let us start by quoting from three of the books I actually own. The first is Panati's Extraordinary Origins of Everyday Things, by Charles Panati. Panati isn't 100% reliable, but he's probably 95% reliable. This quote is from pp. 168-169. Quote:
This is a very small sampling based on three books that happened to be on two shelves of the nonfiction section of my personal library. I could give more examples, but it would be more work.
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Interesting topic.
On TV a few years ago, they had a schoolgirl quoting Shakespeare in between drinking a milkshake. After a short time, the penny drops: she is playing the part of Cleopatra, and she is the same age as Cleopatra at the time. I think that, no matter how much you are told about history, you sometimes have to be shown history as well. And sometimes it takes little tricks like this to shake you out of your mindset. |
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There's a difference between believing that it's alright to expose children to things that many now consider too "adult" for them, and seriously believing that they're the same thing as adults. If all you've got is the former, then saying that it means they're "thought of as miniature adults" is just not accurate; it's a metaphor at best and sensationalist or deceptive at worst. (I, for example, treat men and women the same, but don't think they're the same themselves.)
If one seriously equates children to adults, then one also thinks their minds work the same way and expects the same behavior of them... which I think is the context in which this claim was first made anyway. Proving the former is easy, especially if you're allowed to use a couple of brief recent oddites of certain Occidental countries (based on rather abnormal circumstances) as stand-ins for the whole of history in all places. But it doesn't equal proving the latter. |
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The fact that our culture treats people as children who would be treated as adults in another culture doesn't make the two phases of life equivalent; it just means the dividing line between them has moved. (In our case right here and now, it's moved so far I find it a bit absurd; we're now treating biological adults as children for their first several YEARS as biological adults. No wonder they act so weird! How would YOU, adult readers, respond to being treated like a kid right now?)
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understood your point, and I would still think what I said above whether I knew that I failed to understand your point or not. Quote:
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changed, and along with it the concept of how children should be treated. From the quote I get: Olden days: "Children and adults are the same." Modern age: "Children are different from adults." But you meant: Olden days: "Children and adults are of similar value to us, so we treat them similarly." Modern age: "Children have a value to us that adults don't have, so we treat them differently from adults. Quote:
'Little House' books.) I was thinking about American farm children and Hellenic silver miners when I wrote the previous post, but those thoughts didn't make it into print. Quote:
by Donald A. Norman. Totally different subject: How to design stuff so that it can be used by humans. Nice book. Quote:
miniature adults" is the one that I question, and which motivated me to write my first post in this thread. The rest of what Panati describes could apply equally to children almost everywhere and everywhen. It wasn't just insomnia that made me sit for hours on the stairs in the dark, listening to the adults talk downstairs when company stayed late-- or even when it was just my parents. Unfortunately they never had anything really interesting to say. However, the extent to which children in the past kept the same hours as adults was largely dependant on how much sleep they need, which is not something that is likely to change. If the child needs nine hours and the adult needs only seven, and both arise at the same time, then the child is going to fade out before the adult. If you give yourself a couple of hours of peace and quiet in the morning before getting the kids up, then it is more likely that they will be up as late as you. Quote:
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I do it far less than I used to, back in the olden days of Fidonet and GEnie, before the Internet made 'copy/paste' so easy. -- Jeff, in Minneapolis
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But on many occasions, the child is more mature than the equivalent adult. Or even a continuum.
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Not sure I understand the topic. Children were treated very differently in the past. So were adults. We have learned much about the human psyche, though our learning is of course not complete.
If it is just that we are now more in tune with the development process from infant to adult, I'd agree. But is the premise that people did not recognize the differences between children and adults? I disagree with that. Did they choose not to address the needs, or care for their children as most civilized folks do today? I'd agree to that, but it is a different issue. Treat them in a far more callous way then we do, yes. Not realize they were different, no. They could not have been that inobservant.
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And, if you think about it, why would they have treated children callously if they realized they were different? Was everyone four hundred years ago just a jerk? When Jane Grey died, she could speak some four or five languages fluently. She could write lengthy essays about major points in theology. She had been declared, if not crowned, Queen of England. She was married. She had a better education than some PhDs do today, albeit lacking in anything like modern science. Oh. And she was seventeen.
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History is full of very young monarchs and divine leaders. But the fact that they were not truly given the reigns of power (there was always an overseer - usually evil and nefarious?) proves that they did see children as different.
The fact that they were abused doesn't mean much.
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It is true that when you look at pictures of children (paintings, sculptures, etc.) they tend to look like miniature adults for a very long time. Until the 19th century, more or less, if I'm not mistaken. What this says about the society which produced those pictures, I do not know.
There is no question that the teenager is a 20th century creation. But maybe this is not just a matter of sociology, because nowadays people are more slow to mature physically.
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